Recommended Links

I have personally visited each of the following sites. The Links Section will grow to encompass a wider variety of sites as I do more surfing and am able to visit more sites.  
As a general rule commercial sites are not listed, with the exception of the toys and tools section. We decline to post links to professional domination sites, or pay per use type sites. If you would like to have your site considered for addition to our links page please email me .

National

• National Coalition For Sexual Freedom

• Kink Aware Professionals Resource for people who are seeking psychotherapeutic, medical, complementary healing, legal, financial, and computer professionals who are informed about the diversity of consensual, adult sexuality.
• Black Rose A support, education, social, pansexual group.
• About the Leather Pride Flag The Leather Pride Flag is a symbol for the leather community, which encompasses those who are into leather, sado-masochism, bondage and domination, uniform, rubber, and other fetishes. 
• LATCHES - BDSM D-S SM non-profit support and discussion group for submissive women who have real-time, physical experience in a D/s with some aspect of BDSM
  

California 

• SAK a Sacramento bdsm group
• The Modesto Discussion Group Modesto area bdsm group
• smOdyssey San Jose educational group that also throws amazing parties
• Society of Janus SF educational group
• caryl's BDSM Page     
• House of DeSade extensive resources and educational information.
• CastleBar Closed Oct 2003. 
• The PACK Home Page
• Northern California Ladies Tea society
• Twisted Teas Ladies Tea society in Bay Area
• Exiles calendar specializes in the women's community.

Toys , Equipment, Fetish wear

Featured Link

Happy Tails Happy Tails is the proud maker of quality SM gear. We are probably best known for our fine floggers in a variety of leathers and colors - Elk, Deer, Lamb, Cow and Bison - plus horsehair floggers, buffalo and kangaroo cat o nines, and kangaroo stingers. We also offer high quality kangaroo signal whips, bull whips, snake whips, slappers, and Tomcats, in a variety of colors. In addition, we manufacture high quality stainless steel cock rings, ball weights, and anal balls and eggs.  Our Other Sites: www.singletail.com www.cbttoys.com

• Show off Your stuff extensive collection of body jewelry
• MoonWolf Leather Quality floggers at a reasonable price
• A Mask for All Occasions *this link is not working, if you know the craftsman please contact us.
• RubberSX Small collection of rubber hoods, restraints.
• Different Strokes
• Medical Toys extensive collection, information on medical fetish.
• The Water Hole Wonderful Pony Gear
• Leather By Rose Floggers Paddles, Collars etc. Custom Work.
• Adam and Gillian, The Utopian Network collection of whips, floggers, canes, and a collection of vegan friendly gear. 
• Mr. S Leather and Fetters Eye Candy Site, massive catalog a must see !
• The Frugal Domme small collection of floggers and canes
• StormyLeather leather clothing and other items
• Good Vibrations sex education, toys, books, videos.
• The Stockroom  extensive catalog of standard items.
• The Iron Rose full catalog of standard items. 
• Bend with the Wind Studios silicone dildos,  a must see
• The Nero Emporium Corsets, cloaks, armor, suede floggers.
• De Tails Toys Economical Floggers, nice variety, good quality/price.
• Leather Pride. Biz Pony and Bondage Gear.
• Medical Fetish Toys extensive catalog and educational material, ask a nurse forum.        
     

Health and safety 

Sex Education

Mixed Gender

• Good Vibrations hosts a wide range of classes each month in their stores: click on "Educational Programs" in their web site followed by "After Hours Events" to see a listing. Most are mixed-gender but a few are women-only.
• Learning Annex Select "San Francisco Classes" followed by "Meeting People / Intimacy"  for evening classes on topics such flirting, sensual dance, and Tantra.
•  SFSI Educator Training is open for anyone to take, though it makes the most sense for people who would like to staff the SFSI volunteer hotline.
• Insitute for the Advanced Study of Sexology offers independent graduate coursework, and several certificate programs, in sexology.
• Fairy Butch offers workshops in gender and sexuality, as well as hosting the monthly "In Bed With Fairy Butch" cabaret.
•  Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality is now offering a Sexological Bodywork Certificate. 
•  Body Electric School offers their basic massage courses (for both men and women) in the Oakland area.
• Center for Sex and Culture will host plenty of workshops as well as a library. 

Men-only

•  Men's Sex Life workshops and some of the Relationships classes at the Harvey Milk Institute.
•  Gay Life workshops.
• Scarlet Letter Services workshops.

Women-only

• Women's Sex Life workshops and some of the Relationships classes at the Harvey Milk Institute. 
• Good Vibrations after hours workshops.
• Catherine Rose offers workshops and individualized lessons for women on erotic dance.

GLBT Resources

General

•  GLBT Community Center community events, newspapers, and flyers at the city's impressive . 
•  A Different Light Books, the city's oldest and best-known gay and lesbian bookstore. 
•  larrybob's list is often useful.  listings of GLBT resources and events

Lesbian or Bi Women

• Women's Building offers affordable meeting space for community groups, and offers an event schedule of its own.

Gay or Bi Men

• Men of Discipline Men with uniform fetishes web site. 
• Bears of San Francisco For bears and their admirers. 
• radfae.org for the San Francisco Bay Area radical faerie hotline.

Bi Men and Women

• BiFriendly hosts bi-friendly social events in San Francisco and surrounding areas 
• South Bay Bisexual Organizers and Activists hosts bi-friendly social events in San Jose
• Bay Area Bisexual Network site and click on "Who We Are." 
•  BABN Events and Chat List
• Bi the Bay LiveJournal community.

Medical Play

• BDSM Needle Play Tutorial excellent article on needle play, complete with photos and a very thorough tutorial. 
• BME: Body Modification Body Piercing, tattoos, cutting, scarification, hooks, suspension and so much more, stories, pictures, and links.
• Speculum Pages fiction focused on enemas, links to art, and photo galleries.
• Enema Lovers Guide To The WWW  links, listing for MSN groups and Yahoo groups that are focused on enemas.

Bullwhips

• Bullwhip Home Page  tutorials on how to use a whip, targeting and cracking whips.

• Whip Information bullwhips, signal whips, and single tails links to groups and whip makers.

FirePlay

• Fire Ninja fire play, movies, pictures and FAQ. 
• The Dominants View: The Joy of The Flame
  This is one of the best articles I have found on fire play, extremely informative article. 

BDSM Resource Sites

• The D/s Castle Bdsm Resources
• Submission Net
• Castle Realm    
• Ds Kiosk
• PowerErotics

Misc.

Non BDSM Resources

• Micro   an excellent chat program
• Egroups
• ICQ
• The Burning Man Project - Official Site
• Electronic Freedom Foundation

The Writers Corner- poetry, stories, BDSM fiction and fantasy sites

• Writers Edge IRC based writers forum. bdsm stories, poems and more..
• Akasha's Web 
• old Tom's Spanking and Caning Stories  
• Yahoos list of erotic bdsm fiction sites
       
  

Humor

Personal Sites

• www.violate.co.uk/
• Screamers Pages
• Celebrating Male Submission Ms. Star's Site for male submissives. 
• Explore TranceBoy's world
• KinkHost.Com- Hosting services for fetish and BDSM sites. We won't shut you down!
• KinkMasters.Com- Soon to be opened forum for BDSM and Ds webmasters
• Lord Saber’s Pony Play FAQ  pony play.
• WhisperingThunder.Com- Find out who we are and what we are up to!
• BDSMunion.Com- FREE personals site! In beta- going live SOON!
• BDSMcentral.com- Hundreds of articles for your exploration
• FetishLink.Net- The world of kink brought together in one place with easy to use categories
• FetishStreet.Com- If you can't find something interesting here then you are just too weird 
• BoundPleasure.Com- 100's of BDSM/Ds books for your reading pleasure
• Animal Training XING  puppy and pony training.
• The Estate information about protocol, etiquette and training.  training available for individuals on site.
  

Bondage

• Mummification and Medical Bondage
  This site has some excellent information on mummification.

• Kinbaku: The Art of Erotic Bondage newbie guide, a rope tutorial, a knot tutorial and a gallery section.

• Knot Knowledge  knots, knots, and more knots. Step by step pictures on several different knots. 

• Knots On The Web links to how to sites, gallery sites, discussion groups, historical sites, even competitive knot tying groups. Most links are for the advanced skill level.

French Maid

• The French Maid  training information,  ideas on uniforms and behaviors, Maids Corrective Punishment Court, maid registry and a maid uniform gallery.

 Transgender 

• The Transgender Guide This site is a wonderful source of information, with a library and article section, as well as a resource area it has so much to offer. There is information on hormones, sex reassignment, makeup tips, and links for shopping.

• TransGender San Francisco The oldest transgender educational and social organization in the United States.

• FTM International  longest-running educational organization for FTM's and trans men in the United States.

• Transbay offers an up-to-date online resource guide.

• Adam to Eve Transformations  makeovers, wig styling, and related services.
• Trannyshack remains the most popular drag event in the city. 
• A nightclub called Diva's may be the country's only full-time openly transgendered strip club.

Chastity 

• Altar Boys
  Chastity devices, both male and female, also chastity fiction.

• Tammad’s Chastity Belt Page
  This site has multiple entries associated with both chastity devices and bondage. 
  

This site was last updated on: Monday, August 07, 2006 09:09 AM