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Sadie is taking a break from the life, and her weekly newsletters won't be filling our email boxes. She has graciously and generously  given us permission to repost those things we feel have relevance to our organization and the community.

So Here we will be linking to Sadie's articles so that they are available to our community.

 

Hot off the press

Readers Love Me; People who know me – well that's a different story
Hell Hath no Fury like a Submissive Scorned 
Protecting your Identity in the BDSM Scene
"Danger Dr. Smith, Danger!" Hidden Perils of the BDSM Scene
The Flavors of my Submission
Size Matters! Reader Commentary on being Fat in the BDSM Scene

 

Community & Relationships (how we see ourselves)

"Danger Dr. Smith, Danger!" Hidden Perils of the BDSM Scene
The BDSM/Vanilla Continuum – A Tool for Self Reflection
What is an Experienced Player? 

Are We a Community, or Just a Bunch of Kinksters Doing Our Thing? - Commentary from BDSM Thinkers and Leaders

BDSM Daytrippers, Lifestylers,  and all the Kinky Souls in Between

“Don’t Scare the Villagers” and other Questionable Laws,  along with my thoughts on David Steinberg’s book  Photo Sex: Fine Art Sexual Photography Comes of Age

Het Scene to Old Guard: Suburban Descendants of Urban Aboriginals, and along the Way a Review of Mains’ Urban Aboriginals: A Celebration of Leathersexuality
The Trials and Tribulations… and Joys, of Running Rose & Thorn of Vermont. (And Tips on How To Start Your Own Group!)
Sadie's Excellent Vanilla Dating Adventure

 

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The Frugal Submissive (for Dominants too)

Adultery and the Vanilla Spouse

Total Surrender? In a Pig's Eye!

Doms Behaving Badly

What I Know for Sure (my vision statement)

A Dominant’s Ethics and Some Messy Emotional Areas of the Human Psyche  

Why I Write about BDSM

The Flavors of my Submission

 

Where Do I Start? - Info for Novices

What is an Experienced Player? 

The Frugal Submissive (for Dominants too)

Getting Involved in the BDSM Community

Exploring Relationship Options in BDSM

Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of Dominance

OK I Have a Submissive … What the Heck Do I Do Now?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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