NCBDSM SADIE SAYS

Sadie is taking a break from the life, and her weekly newsletters won't be filling our email boxes. She has graciously and generously given us permission to repost those things we feel have relevance to our organization and the community.

So Here we will be linking to Sadie's articles so that they are available to our community.

Hot off the press

Readers Love Me; People who know me – well that's a different story

Hell Hath no Fury like a Submissive Scorned

Protecting your Identity in the BDSM Scene

"Danger Dr. Smith, Danger!" Hidden Perils of the BDSM Scene

The Flavors of my Submission

Size Matters! Reader Commentary on being Fat in the BDSM Scene

Community & Relationships (how we see ourselves)

"Danger Dr. Smith, Danger!" Hidden Perils of the BDSM Scene

The BDSM/Vanilla Continuum – A Tool for Self Reflection

What is an Experienced Player?

Are We a Community, or Just a Bunch of Kinksters Doing Our Thing? - Commentary from BDSM Thinkers and Leaders

BDSM Daytrippers, Lifestylers, and all the Kinky Souls in Between

“Don’t Scare the Villagers” and other Questionable Laws, along with my thoughts on David Steinberg’s book Photo Sex: Fine Art Sexual Photography Comes of Age

Het Scene to Old Guard: Suburban Descendants of Urban Aboriginals, and along the Way a Review of Mains’ Urban Aboriginals: A Celebration of Leathersexuality

The Trials and Tribulations… and Joys, of Running Rose & Thorn of Vermont. (And Tips on How To Start Your Own Group!)

Sadie's Excellent Vanilla Dating Adventure

Adultery and the Vanilla Spouse

Total Surrender? In a Pig's Eye!

Doms Behaving Badly

What I Know for Sure (my vision statement)

A Dominant’s Ethics and Some Messy Emotional Areas of the Human Psyche

Why I Write about BDSM

The Flavors of my Submission

Where Do I Start? - Info for Novices

What is an Experienced Player?

The Frugal Submissive (for Dominants too)

Getting Involved in the BDSM Community

Exploring Relationship Options in BDSM

Getting up to Speed on the Technical Stuff of Dominance

OK I Have a Submissive … What the Heck Do I Do Now?

Play Party Series

I've Been Invited To A BDSM Play Party! Should I Go?

Public Play, Private Preference - Play Parties and that Whole Dilemma

Fetish Wardrobe Series

Can't I Just Wear My Flannel Shirt? Why Fetish Wear is De Rigueur.

Developing a Fetish Wardrobe on a Budget

Accessorizing for Pain & Pleasure

Auto-Erotica Series: Exploring BDSM without a Partner

Introduction & Part I: Self-Inflicted BDSM

Exploring Subspace through Alternative Mind Places

Submitting and Surrender to Self

Self Reflection and Personal Growth During the In-Between Period

The BDSM Cyber Relationship Series – Commentary from an Ex Real-Time Elitist

Introduction & Exploring the Continuum of Real Time and Cyber Relationships

Common Aspects & Making the Best of the Online Experience

Challenges of the Cyber Experience

Making Sense of Internet Writing Styles

My Travels with Babar (my stuffed Elephant) - Scene Report Series:

My Dinner with Albany

Sadie Visits the Big City, also known as The Country Mouse Takes a Trip

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